Hey guys, it's 2015 right now! One of my new year resolutions is to become more active in blogging again. It's time to polish up that writing skill whoops.
Here's a recap on my 2014.
Lots of things have happened. Both good and bad. But I'm thankful that I'm so blessed to have more good than the bad.
January:
I started 1st year preparatory class at Brickfields Asia College (the college where i did my a-levels as well) yup...gonna be here for quite sometime.
K also organised an early surprise birthday celebration for me because my birthday is on 1st of Feb and the second day of CNY is on this date. Everyone is gonna be back for holidays so he decided to celebrate it for me earlier. K gave me 2 birthday surprises. One with our housemates and another with his friends who became my good friends as well (wtf friend stealer lol)
Sad to say that, he failed one of the surprise HAHAHA (the one with his friends)
It happened like this, I was playing around with K's phone when he was showering. I camwhored a bit (vain oops) and looked through pictures in his gallery. When he came out from the shower, he immediately snatched the phone away from me. This has never happened before. He always lets me use his phone and never questioned me. He told me he has nothing to hide and he knows that i respect his privacy. I never snoop around his things but only use his phone functions. We also always answer each other's phone calls if one party is busy, or sometimes even help reply texts.
So naturally, I got very upset and started getting suspicious that he has something to hide from me. Like he was cheating on me or something and afraid that I'll find out wtf. You can't blame me right. Omg he gave that big of a reaction lohhh.
So then i asked him "why why, what's wrong. why did you treat me so roughly?"
He dropped the ultimate bomb "Don't snoop around my things lah. why are you looking through my phone?"
Wah he say till like this I ma even more suspicious lah.
So i said "All these while i use your phone as usual you never said anything. why suddenly now that you claim I snoop around your stuff? are you hiding something from me?"
Then he just gave me another "Don't look through my phone la"
At this point I was on the verge of tears loh. Super damn hurt and scared that he cheat on my (wtf irrational but cannot help me) I was thinking 'sei fo loh, i thought he seemed damn loyal. can't believe i would fall victim in getting cheated.'
Then i just kept quiet and stared on the ground. Before I knew it, tears started falling. I know I damn emotional. Don't judge pls.
Then he saw me crying and asked "why you cry? there's nothing to cry about. don't cry"
Now i became super duper upset "how is it possible for me not to get upset. it seems like you are hiding something from me. i cannot help but feel suspicious. i don't have a good feeling about this. what is it? why won't you let me see? are you onto some other girl? is this what this is about?'
Can say that, from this point onwards i lost it already.
K had the nerve to just keep quiet. But then he see that i cry so quietly by myself like that so kolien he couldn't bear to see it anymore. So he exposed his secret LOL.
"No la... actually I was planning a surprise party for you. I was afraid that you happened to see the chat then no more surprise liau"
WAH I CANNOT TELL YOU HOW RELIEVED I FELT PLS.
I asked "wah then why must you be so aggressive. you make it seemed like you are cheating on me" (watch too much drama that's why, but his actions also damn suspicious lah!)
K: ya ya i know. when i snatched the phone away from you so abruptly and so aggressively i thought to myself 'oh fuck what did i just do, this time die liau'
So yup, to help K keep face, i pretended to be surprised during the dinner but in fact i already knew the plan oops. Sorry Carmen and Louis! Love you guys! Still feel very touched kay!
February:
I went to Japan for CNY holidays and celebrated my birthday there!
And guess what! K forgot to wish me on my real birthday FML.
I was waiting the whole day for him to at least drop me a text or whatsapp just to wish me happy birthday but noooo. Until that night when my birthday was almost over, i sent him a text 'i wished you at least remembered today's date'
You know what he replied??? "What's the occasion today?"
ARGHH. And he wasn't trolling with me. He GENUINELY forgot.
After awhile then he realised: "Shit! I'm so sorry! Happy Birthday baby!"
I loved Japan but this was the saddest day in Japan for me FML.
I also celebrated Valentine's Day for the first time ever. Last time I did get flowers and chocolates from admirers but never went out with a guy for a dinner date. And even when I was in a relationship, the relationship either started AFTER Valentine's Day or didn't last till Valentine's Day hahaha.
March:
Officially got together with K for exactly a year!
Nothing much happened in this month apart from the fact that i took up running very seriously.
I started off by pacing myself and could only do 5km in half an hour, after that my battery flat already.
Shall not bore you with running talk.
April:
I remember from the span of March till May, my housemates were having a bakuteh craze. Once a week, we would wake up at 6am in the morning to travel to Klang for bakuteh as breakfast. So far this has place the greatest impression on me for this particular month hahaha.
May:
K and the rest are gearing up for their final year examinations. I am too, with my assignments. So can say was absolutely focused for this month with studies etc. And not to mention being very active in sports. Lots and lots of miles ran within this span of time haha.
Oh and I remember i purposely flew back home just to attend to my nephew's 1 year old birthday party hahaha. I'm his only aunt and self-declared best friend ma. What to do haha.
At the end of may, the housemates and I took a trip to Langkawi! It was an awesome awesome time! Really loved it! Looking forward to this year's May trip again hehe.
June:
Went back home for summer holidays. K went to Europe and I didn't manage to communicate with him for 2 weeks because Europe's wi-fi need to pay and it's expensive shit lol.
And at home I stuffed myself with lotsa fresh seafood. KL's seafood not as fresh as back home's and way more expensive. Back home, we fish it out and cook it immediately. *slurp slurp*
This month trolled with me. I wanted to go to Tawau (K's hometown) just to visit since I've never been there before. But there were so many kidnapping cases around my dad advised me otherwise. So i kuai kuai stay at home and rot haha.
July:
All my high school friends start flying back home from overseas so there was a lot of catch-up and meet-up sessions. A lot of gym time involved too. I went to gym 5 days out of 7. Lost 2 kgs one shot haha. And at home I ate clean too. Like really really clean. Everything was boiled and steam. By now I can hit 15km without feeling like I wanna die. I was really proud of myself hehe.
August:
Gym gym gym and gym. Eat clean regime. Felt so healthy.
My KL friends came to Kuching for a visit too. The trip was to prove to them that I don't live in the jungle. Dunno why West-Malaysians always have this misconception that East-Malaysians are living in kampung and are not developed at all. When my friends came, they said it was such a modern city. As advanced as KL only with a more laid back lifestyle. Not so hectic and rushed. So relaxing yet so modern. See see see. I'm glad they enjoyed the trip!
September:
Officially started life as a 1st year student! Got to see K again after 3 months! September has been all about settling back, waking up early and attending classes. No more eat clean regime cause I'm not allowed to cook in the student accommodation and KL food all so oily so bobian still have to eat to survive.
I still head to the gym regularly. This time i took up rock-climbing, bouldering and muay thai! Whole new level of fun and fitness! I like!
Also accompanied Louis and his Japanese friends who came to visit. We went to Malacca together and brought them around to try Malaysian food. They loved everything except durians HAHAHA. They smelled it and claimed it to be very smelly. After trying it, they said it tasted horrible.
Oh oh, and every Sunday i go cycling with K's group of friends too. Can say that, it's the start of our fitness training regime!
October:
Gym, muay thai and bouldering every week. Sweat sweat sweat!
Joined a 7km charity marathon called Locks of Hope. Was a super enjoyable time!
Also went to Cameron Highlands with friends. First time going there. As true as the saying, Cameron Highland's strawberries are sour. None of them are sweet lol. Each of us also adopted a cactus plant and named them. I named mine Spikey (how typical). We even have a whatsapp group called Cactus Buddies hahaha.
November:
Joined and conquered Viper Challenge 2014! I injured myself here. My kneecap popped out then it popped back in again by itself but slanted to the side causing my ligament to be pulled. Limped the rest of the 10km. But i finished it and i was glad i did! My knee was swollen and I was told not to exercise or do any active activities for 2 months. Sighhhh.
Also got my wisdom tooth removed on this month. It cost me RM2k. Yup omg so expensive. But my surgeon was very experienced and he did a super smooth, clean and quick job. So at least I'm paying all that extra for less pain and less unnecessary injury.
Also started on my assignments which carries 25% of marks for each subject. I have four subjects. This marks the day where I have to sit in front of the laptop, read, do research, and type endlessly.
I also got started on physiotherapy. Quite shiok to have someone massage your knee for you while you just sit there and surf the net. Also had ultrasound therapy to reduce inflammation.
December:
Still cannot exercise. Feel so restless. Accompanied K to all his gym activities and bouldering. Only can sit down and watched. Backside itchy wanna join too. I am still on physiotherapy but was told that my knee is better already.
Took one of the week and secretly went to play badminton (shhh oops don't tell my mom). I took it slow. Just needed to move around and sweat a bit. Mostly used my hand and didn't run around much.
Managed to throw a very successful surprise party for K hehehe! Mission accomplished! He was really happy that night i could tell :)))
Had a simple celebration with a group of friends during Christmas.
Made red wine sangria with K at home and let it sit for a day and a half. After that we brought it over to friend's house to celebrate new year countdown. Everyone approved and said that it was good stuff hehe. Success!
So this pretty much sums up my whole year.
My current 2015 New Year Resolution is very simple (since if i set so unrealistic, sure cannot accomplish one)
1) to eat healthier and cleaner no matter where i go
2) to not start studying so last minute (which means i can start making more extensive notes and get ready for the May exams already)
3) to start writing more and start reviving my blog again
4) to start getting fit again when I am given green light to start exercising
5) to be more patient and disciplined yet live a more carefree life (because sometimes i fret over the littlest things)
I only made 5 resolutions for 2015. It's only befitting isn't it hehe.
Update soon!
